Why You Feel Like A Loser
What to Expect
“Your job title will change. The awards will gather dust. The spotlight will move on. But the way you treat people will always be remembered.”
In modern society—and especially in ambitious expat and entrepreneurial communities—success is often measured through job titles, income, and professional networks. Promotions, awards, and public recognition become the visible markers of a life well-lived.
But what happens when the spotlight moves on?
Sociological and psychological research suggests that these visible markers tell only a small part of the story. From the Harvard Study of Adult Development (which found that the quality of close relationships is the strongest predictor of lifelong happiness) to Viktor Frankl’s psychological insights on human meaning, science and philosophy point to a different definition of success.
Join us for our next Socrates Café-style discussion, where we will step away from transactional networking and dive into collective, philosophical inquiry. We will explore how we build a life defined not just by status, but by connection, authenticity, and meaning.
### 🗣️ What We Will Discuss:
Rather than a lecture, this is an open floor for deep conversation. We’ll explore questions like:
What do people actually remember about us after we’re gone?
Is success mainly about achievement, or about relationships?
Can someone be highly successful but morally unsuccessful?
If professional success disappears—titles, status, recognition—what remains that still makes a life successful?
If you had to choose between being admired and being loved, which matters more?
### 🧠 What is a Socrates Café?
It is a gathering where people from different backgrounds come together to exchange ideas, ask better questions, and challenge their own assumptions in a respectful, welcoming environment. You don't need a background in philosophy or psychology to join—just an open mind and a willingness to explore deeper ideas.
### 📍 Logistics
Date: Saturday, 11th April 2026
Location: The Hideaway Restaurant
Cost: 200 THB
RSVP: Space is limited